Stop Living for the Weekend
For anyone counting down to Friday and wondering where the weeks keep going.
To stop living for the weekend, find out what is draining your weekdays, put one thing you look forward to into each workday, protect time for people and activities you care about on weeknights, look for parts of your work that use your strengths and pay attention to the ordinary moments you usually rush through. If five days a week are just something to get through, most of your life is being spent waiting.
My oldest son, Caleb, graduated and headed off to college. For years, his games and school events were just part of the calendar.
Sitting through a school play or being on a bench for what felt like the fiftieth game of the summer didn’t always feel like the best use of my time.
I found myself sitting at Caleb’s last baseball game. Then his last basketball game. Then his final cross-country meet. Before I knew it, I was watching him walk across a graduation stage and preparing to send him off to college.
And you don’t always realize it’s the last one when you’re in it.
Many people feel this. Gallup’s State of the Global Workplace research has found that only about one in five employees worldwide are engaged at work. When most of the week feels like something to survive, it is easy to start treating Monday through Friday as time you just need to get through.
Five out of seven days is most of your life. It deserves more than waiting.
Six ways to stop living for the weekend
Find what drains your weekdays
Is it the work, the people, the commute or how you spend your evenings? You cannot fix a vague feeling.
Put something good in every day
A walk at lunch, a call with a friend or a favorite workout midweek gives each day something to look forward to.
Protect your weeknights
Plan one weeknight a week for something you care about, not just recovering on the couch.
Use your strengths at work
Look for tasks or projects that use what you are good at. Even a little more of that can change how a week feels.
Be present in ordinary moments
Put the phone down at dinner. Watch the game instead of your inbox. These are the moments you will remember.
Ask if it is time for a change
If every week feels like something to escape, it may be time to look at a new role, team or path.
Time doesn’t announce itself as important.
It feels ordinary while you’re living it.
Signs you are living for the weekend
- 1. You start counting down to Friday on Monday
- 2. Sunday night fills you with dread
- 3. You spend weeknights just recovering
- 4. You cannot remember much from last week
- 5. Your best moments only happen on days off
Related reading: Present vs Available, How to Be More Present With Your Family and Am I Burned Out or Bored?.
Common questions
Why do I live for the weekend?
Often because your weekdays are draining, you have no time for things you enjoy during the week or your work does not use your strengths.
How do I enjoy my weekdays more?
Put one thing you look forward to into each day, protect some weeknight time and look for work that uses your strengths.
Is it normal to dread Mondays?
It is common, but regular dread is a signal worth paying attention to. It may point to burnout or a job that is not a fit.
How do I stop wishing my life away?
Pay attention to ordinary moments, be present with the people around you and build a week you do not need to escape from.
Find what drains your weekdays, add something good to each day, protect your evenings and be present in the ordinary moments.
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